Inspiration and influence #IWD2019
Throughout my career I have worked with lots of different people. Admittedly there are really only two types of folk that stick in my mind: the great, and the not-so-great.
Both types of colleagues have often without even knowing it, shaped me into the businesswoman I am today; they have influenced my decisions, attitude and approach to life.
On International Women’s Day I’ve picked out my top 5 lessons and memories involving five great female colleagues that have really inspired not only my career path, but my growth as a person – going from a care free graduate to a mum of two and female entrepreneur.
1. Caroline – Love your job, but love your family more.
In my first proper job after graduating, Caroline was the mother hen figure of the office, I really appreciated. A great team member and diligent worker, she was also a mum to two young boys who were the light of her life. Caroline gave it all at work, but her family was her motivation. She was also one of the first people I worked with who was term-time only.
2. Kathy – Have fun.
In a team of all men, myself and Kathy for a long while were the only females in the office. Always bringing a smile and confidence to proceedings, there was constantly something to laugh about, even when times were tough. When you can spend more time at work than you do at home, it’s so important to enjoy what you do and have fun, and Kathy did just that.
3. Lynne – Help and support others.
A chance meeting with Lynne resulted in a great relationship that extended beyond the workplace. A truly lovely soul, with a real commitment to do the right thing and nothing ever too much trouble, demonstrates how much others are willing to do if they really believe and have trust in you.
4. Barbara – Challenge perceptions.
Barbara was a manager I'll never forget. An intelligent, hard-working lady who commanded attention despite her small frame. Always immaculately put together, never intimated or afraid to confront people, her confidence was infectious. Barbara’s belief in me and my decisions was a huge comfort and something I’ll always aspire to give others.
5. Sandra – You’ve got this.
I met Sandra when she was brought in as external support and immediately jelled. Working in similar fields and industry, having the same sense of humour, work ethic and being a mum, Sandra was one of the people who gave me the confidence to set up on my own having done it herself. A true professional and all round good person, she continues to be one of my greatest cheerleaders.
There are so many more brilliant women I could add to this list, and to be honest I could easily have compiled it with men who have been equally influential and inspirational.
Of course, not every female I have worked with falls into the ‘great’ memory category. There’s been times when I’ve been surprised at certain actions and attitudes. But that’s what make us human and individuals, regardless of gender.
From the likes of Oprah, to Serena Williams, Lady Michelle Mone and Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez, there are lots of high-profile women who are achieving amazing things, but it’s often the women who feature in our everyday lives that make the biggest impact.
In a society where women face a constant battle with mum guilt, imposter syndrome and gender stereotypes, a supportive network of fellow females whether it be through work, family or friends is essential.
Who has inspired your career?